A bachelorette party shouldn’t cost thousands of dollars, be tacky, or worse – boring!
We can’t all have a Vegas hens’ party, but just because you and your girl gang aren’t heading to the Mojave Desert, doesn’t mean you bachelorette should be anything less than a Vegas-worthy celebration.
Share in the excitement and nerves of the final countdown to your special day, and treat yourselves to an unforgettable hens party with these ideas.
Ski Weekend Away: Winter brides, or those that just love the snow, head away with the girls for a ski weekend. New Zealand is spoiled for choice: in the South, Queenstown is surrounded by snow-capped mountains and crystal clear lakes while offering first class accommodation and scenery. In the North, just 4 hours from Auckland, Mt Ruapehu offers two playgrounds, Whakapapa and Turoa, as well as plenty of other exciting activities. Dressed in the cutest snow-bunny outfits, or rocking garish 80’s get-up from your local op-shop, hit the slopes for skiing and hot chocolates on the mountain by day, and sip on cocktails or mulled wine at night.
Up for a splurge? You could even take the girls in a helicopter ride to see the sights from above (and take instagram pics that’ll be the envy of every other bride-to-be)! A trip to Queenstown is incomplete without that Onsen Hot Pools shot, so submerge yourself in the hot springs spa to warm up. At the end of all of your action-packed days, sit by the fire roasting marshmallows, and recalling your best (and most embarrassing) memories with the girls. This plan will surely de-stress the bride and get her ready for the big day.
Concert: Get the girls together and go to a music festival or attend the concert of the bride’s favourite artist. Whether a two-day festival in the sun (relive your teenage years at RnV) or a local gig, a concert is sure to get you in a celebratory mood. Make it an unforgettable weekend by booking a hotel for the night too, the perfect spot for pre-drinks and the afterparty.
Road Trip: Just like when you were teenagers – blast the music, wind down the windows, let your hair down and just enjoy being together and the journey. Find cool stops along the way and plan fun activities at the destination – swimming, bon-fires, camping, cafes, picnics, local restaurants and attractions, even a scavenger hunt of the area.
If you’ve road-tripped in the past, take the bride on a trip down memory lane – visit the spots you all used to visit; where the bride had her first kiss (or her first Vodka Cruiser!). This could even be turned into a “guess what the bride did here” game as you travel back in time to relive the best of times with the girls, and share a couple laughs along the way.
Health Retreat: Starting the morning with yoga, healthy food made for you and ending the day with cooking classes and massages. Health conscious brides will love to be pampered with a relaxing retreat. Crave Fitness is a wellness weekend held in Taupo that focuses on de-stressing and keeping fit while motivating and challenging everyone. I also recently attended a day retreat organised by Wellness Retreats NZ, and Mel has more planned later this year. Great food, amazing accommodation and personal training and yoga suited to your guests are just some of the options.
She Said Yes, we Said Vegas! Yes, I was lucky enough to head to Vegas with my best friend for a (mini-)Hens weekend, but I was also able to recreate the Vegas trip with a weekend at Skycity – see full post.
Vineyard: Wherever you are in New Zealand, you’re never too far from great vineyards and views – not to mention wine. Whether taking the ferry (or the chopper) across to Waiheke Island, or road-tripping around Kumeu, Marlborough, Otago, or Hawkes Bay to name a few, lunch and wine-tasting is the perfect way to begin a classy bachelorette day out. Learn how the wine process works, or just taste them all while taking advantage of the beautiful landscapes.
I’ve taken Blair on a couple of surprise dates lately – most recently to Sculptureum (see vlog) and a little while ago with a helicopter trip to Man O War – it’s the ultimate luxe day out for you and your girls.
Food, glorious food and glorious wine! Someone asked me yesterday where I’d recommend on Waiheke for wine-tasting and beautiful views. I initially said Mudbrick or Cable Bay, but I think @manowarwine is my new fav spot – B and I went over (on a heli booked with @ourdatenite no less) and had the most relaxing afternoon. It was a total surprise for him – he thought he was just going out for lunch… Must be his turn to surprise me now! Any suggestions for him? ✨ . . . . . . . #ourdatenite #waiheke #waihekeisland #waihekewedding #auckland #aucklandcity #aucklandeats #aucklandeats #aucklandnz #aucklandlife #husband #datenight #datenight #couplegoals #couple #newlywed #newlyweds #newlywedlife #nz. #newzealand #aotearoa #nzsummer #nzig #ignz #manowar #manowarwine
Book a Bach? If you’re heading away, whether on a road trip or over to Waiheke on the ferry, why not make a night of it and book a bach for the night. This is what my gals organised for me last February, and it was an absolute dream.
So simple, yet so perfect, we spent the afternoon drinking wine and eating nibbles, had a swim at Waiheke’s Palm Beach, and continued the night with cocktails, games, and all sorts of other debauchery I won’t mention! If I was in charge of booking a hens weekend, I’d take the girls back to Palm Beach on Waiheke, or up to Treghan Lodge in Kerikeri.
Sometimes the best ideas are also the most simple, and with a little forethought and planning, you can pull off the perfect bachelorette party!
Happy Valentine’s Day Lovers! ❤️❤️ I celebrated my Hens’ Party yesterday with the 10 best Valentine-dates anyone could ever ask for – they whisked me away to #WaihekeIsland and planned the most incredible send-off imaginable. From the midday Champagne to midnight Skinny Dipping (…and yes, a stripper!) I had the best day I could ever ask for ❤️